a poem for me and by me, but inspired by my Brown Girl Extraordinaire

a poem for me and by me, but inspired by my Brown Girl Extraordinaire

Brown brown browwwn skin
I mean I’m like pecans and almonds
I’m all pecan and almondy
In the winter I’m all pecan and almondy til the spring comes & I get an inkling of my color back
I’m chasing the summer sun like I’ll take two shots on the rocks with that
I’ll up my dosage and blanket my body with a heat attack
Let the light shine down down downnn
The halo of the sun is my crown crown crownnn
I think I’ll make it toast to that
for All my brown girls

Words to my sister, my Beloved Brown Girl Extraordinaire, Karyn Washington…

Words to my sister, my Beloved Brown Girl Extraordinaire, Karyn Washington…Image

My heart is aching all because of KARYN WASHINGTON !!! You’ve been a friend of mine since middle school. We first met at Greater Grace Christian Academy. Andrea introduced us! We didn’t have any classes together in high school but we would usually catch the same bus home after school, laughing and acting a fool. At GGCA our beautiful brown faces were just two of the very few that would walk those halls.

I can’t recall ever seeing you without a smile on your face. Even when I’ve seen you upset (LOL) you still had a little smirk. Ha! I could never take you seriously when you tried to scold someone. I can’t remember if it was your little sister or cousin, but while we were walking home from school you fussed at them for something they had gotten in trouble for. But it was funny! I tried so hard not to let them see me snickering while you scolded them, but I just couldn’t help it! I’m like Karyn put some base in your voice! LOL Nonetheless, laughing with you will always be a great memory. It’s like all you had to do was to show up and show your teeth. Your smile was so big and your face was so beautiful! You were radiant and that would prompt infectious laughter. We’d laugh ourselves silly.

I remember I’d cover my mouth when i laughed. I had just gotten braces and I wasn’t quite comfortable yet. I was the epitome of an awkward little black girl. You told me I could be your brace face buddy. I think that was the first time if ever heard the term “brace face” !!! Lol & it certainly wasn’t the last either. We’d talk a lot about school and other silly stuff that probably didn’t matter much, but you gave me so much comfort. Now that I think about it, that amazes me. We were only in middle school and there you were inspiring me and teaching me to love my brown self in the most subtle ways. It is no surprise that you would go on to do such amazing things. May “For Brown Girls” (FBG) continue to thrive. That will forever be your brand, your movement, and your legacy! You’re amazing and even at such the young and tender age of 22 you’ve touched the lives of many all over the world. You inspire me and so many other people so much more than you could’ve ever imagined. I wish you could’ve seen the true magnitude of that.

When I look at you I see a reflection of myself and most certainly that is why this hurts so badly. From now on I’ll forever remember your big beautiful smile, your charm, ambition, professionalism, entrepreneurship, confidence, humility, your drive, and your beautiful Brown Skin. That is what I’ll choose to remember… because to be honest, I’m a bit angry with you. Indeed I’m being selfish, but my heart is devastated- yet, because I know a tad bit about what you were going through I can understand. I’m guilt tripping because I wish I could’ve been there for you a little bit more.  I’m so sorry, but I can’t help but to think that with just a little bit more time or a little less distance, proximity would’ve allowed me to make, maybe the slightest difference…. Forgive me!

Your MOTHER raised you so well. She’s been proud of you and I know she’s happy to have you by her side now. I’m so blessed to have met you and I’m so grateful that there is a God so merciful and graceful enough to supply us with what we need just when we need it- And so like I told you the last time we shared words, I love you, you’ve been in my prayers, and God is with you even in your darkest hour- and I’m most certain that He was last night. I’m glad you have found peace and happiness. You deserve it. God bless you, your family, and friends. You are Loved and Missed my beautiful brown girl extraordinaire! Thank you for being kind. Thank you for sharing your dream. Thank you for your courage and all the love you’ve poured out of your soul. Now you’ll receive divine restoration- 10 fold! (tears)

To learn more about Karyn or to support the For Brown Girls Movement or the Dark Skin Red Lip Project visit and

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What is Kanye’s world coming to

Indeed I have a problem with Kanye West calling himself “Yeezus” and (similarly people referring to Beyoncé as “Beyzus”). The reason being is plainly explained here in 2 Thessalonians 2:4 – “Who opposeth and exalteth himself above all that is called God, or that is worshipped; so that he as God sitteth in the temple of God, shewing himself that he is God”…. This is called *blasphemy.* &so I wonder what he has to say about this – In The bible Mark speaks of blasphemy as the unforgivable sin. It’s reiterated repeatedly in the Book of Mark James Luke and Revelations. 

According to Merriam – Webster dictionary the word “blasphemy” means “the act of insulting or showing contempt or lack of reverence for God; the act of claiming the attributes of deity; irreverence toward something considered sacred.”

Matthew 12:31-32 – Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy [against] the [Holy] Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men.

And now There is a new religion based off of Kanye West (yes you read right) and it’s called Yeezianity

More on the religion and the group who created it here —>

What do you all think?

Valid Questions

Today, March 3rd marks history!

Congratulations to my Love, Lupita but to the fans and all: What is it for YOU? I’m curious to know. Do we praise Lupita for her talent or because of who she is? Is it merited or unmerited favor? Is it as much about her talent as it is about her as a person of color? Is it the rise of the underdog? Are we tokenizing her as the dark skinned woman of color, the minority of all minorities rising above the odds; is it the mere fact that she’s got the world shaking In their boots, changing the name of the game? Are her accolades based on the content of her character or her persona- the idea of her? are these components inextricably bound? Have we made her into a prodigy? And if so do you think this might be problematic? I’d just like to think I’m praising her for all the right reasons so someone please do tell me. What is it- this crazed hyper admiration of Lupito Nyong’o, every chocolate girl’s sHero? *Valid Question*